Fluid A · Connection / Belonging
Safe with others
Safety → reciprocity
The nervous system supports engaging with others, sharing experiences and responding to one another. The person can feel connected and included while their attention follows the shared activity.
Autonomic pathway and related term
- Autonomic pathway
- Parasympathetic · ventral vagal, as described in Polyvagal Theory.
- Related term
- Social engagement
- Attention
- Can move between the shared activity, the surroundings and one’s own responses.
- Perception of time
- Time may seem to pass quickly or go unnoticed when absorbed in the shared experience.
- Emotions
- Feeling included, caring about others and enjoying taking part. Emotions may include love, gratitude, trust and joy.
- Empathy
- Can share another person’s feelings while distinguishing them from one’s own, and remain open to correcting one’s understanding of their experience.
- Repair
- Open to hearing how one’s actions affected another person, taking responsibility for one’s part and changing behaviour to address the harm.
Relevant research and limits
- Polyvagal Theory
- Social safety and attachment
- Autonomic regulation
- Interpersonal emotion regulation
- Attention and time perception
- Empathy
- Relational repair
Attachment and social-safety research inform how trusted relationships can support felt safety. Interpersonal emotion-regulation research examines how people’s responses influence one another’s emotions. Polyvagal Theory contributes the ventral-vagal account of social engagement. Autonomic activity varies with the demands of participation.